Select an active role into the life

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one night, cool breeze, I went to the campus running, and then return to teaching building, to coincide with graduating students off going to night classes, the students point out the school buildings in twos and threes. I entered the building , would like to look at the activities of the students going to night classes during recess. Unexpectedly, in the face of the corridor outside my class, I heard two students are arguing, fights are ugly. my pleasure to be angry mood suddenly replaced immediately so that the two students to the office.
saw me, they immediately afraid. look at them that way at first, I wanted to angry, to see them be afraid, my gas and disappeared. So I think, to face the students make mistakes , a teacher who really can play a dozen or even dozens of different roles.
I can play the role of a furious reckless, raw meal gas itself, but also to enable students to raw meal gas.
I can play an irresponsible, laissez-faire attitude of the character, the result of students getting naughty, and I have less and less credibility. I have great experience to play the role of teacher to students of fight against the disadvantages, to help students set measures to avoid quarreling, to enable students to vote in admiration.
I can also play a sarcastic scolding a student will pass, other aspects of the role of helpless, so that students have a divide between the psychological.
I can Students grandmother played the role of the Sincere concern for love, after correction for education.
I can play the students strict father, mother, brother, family roles, so that students feel like family warmth and love, in the warm in the correction of errors; my friend can play the role of students, mischievous with students playing the role of partners, the psychological representation naughty students, and then convincing them to join me in thinking of his error tied up.
I certainly can play a physical health practitioners, the role of psychological treatment the doctor to analyze the students physical and psychological reasons for mistakes, and then help them remove obstacles.
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short, although the two fight in front of me students , I not only have two choices to deal with this issue. choose different roles determine the different effects of education.
I chose the strict father and the doctor's dual role of psychological treatment, Sincere them with love, and then given specific and detailed psychological analysis. They listened to my analysis, neither frightened frightened, but also have a deep understanding of the errors on the effective dissection of the self. They willingly accepted the education and learned to control their own errors. I have chosen for their role in the success filled with a joy.
I often feel that their daily life, we face all the time the role of choice. face the same thing, we can play multiple roles; the big stage in life, we play multiple roles. We must not shut ourselves get out in a role where.
choose an active role in this truth, I often speak with students.
I asked the students: the headmaster.
That does not bother you?
who had. accept the punishment, after good faith to correct.
reception of the customer. it? What a broad mind, a strong need for more tolerance, need more extensive knowledge of psychology, so that the air to shun her down, we have increased life experience, a wealth of knowledge, would not do both? If do not want to enter this the role of punching bag, she outlet, you do not let; she scolded, you noisy, neither happy, get an angry person, but also tend to become narrow minded.
play the role of a ballot paper. leaders group photo, and the party's third term has the general secretary photo 7, has attended Huairen Hall in Zhongnanhai, the Great Hall meeting. Great Hall of the meeting will not say that sitting below, the rostrum above the I has been in 5 times. has arranged several ministerial level cadres sitting behind me. One time, I look back, the State Council spokesman Yuan Mu sitting behind me. At this point, I do not say: , you such a high status, how can you sit Wei Shusheng behind it? We two-for-one trade. teacher representatives, the role it wants to.
to everyday life, but always thinking about it will never be friends. everyday life, I want the most is that I am with Mai Binggun's grandmother, uncle cabbage with the sales, in the In this sense people are completely draw parallels, and we a little better than people high. I always think a lot of trouble on earth are people always want a result of an expert. an expert one, or the people? They want to be not of those things, people riding in the head, the people would not let, so they fight it.
thinking about themselves in the most extraordinary personality and the same workers, which would then play their own role. If I have to say that they, and what Maibing Gun's not the same, that is, we better working conditions than others, we better opportunities in life than others. If so, then the more hard to learn, work harder son.
1991 Summer, I returned to teach in Tibet, arrived in Harbin to participate in the national secondary school Law Research Society Annual Meeting. I call on the Tibetan side to buy me a July 26 flight from Chengdu to fly Harbin, Lhasa, said have to contact good. Unexpectedly, one of Chengdu, said no aircraft on this day to go to Harbin. I am very worried because the General Assembly, Harbin, more than 2,000 people, 350 workshops and 146 representatives will be waiting for me in for I am the National Research Council study of law school president. No way, I had to change the flight 26 in Shenyang, the Shenyang is 21:00 o'clock, I rushed to the Shenyang station bought a standing tickets, and finally squeezed into the train.
then stand the crowded car, I wish, now my role is to expression, the action of the passengers, study their language and professional visitors, the relationship between characters. This study was, made me forget the fatigue, the feeling fascinating. is happy, on the left to a person bumped into me hard, I think driven to the rational, because I was standing in the aisle, people walk past, do not hit me how to do. I smiled towards the people. There was another pause, again the right one, according to my foot stepped on his foot, and I that step was nothing wrong, and so they said okay, okay, I'm sorry he put up, he had to come the words, Kenan did not mind, always full of complaints, grievances hundred, a thousand angry, or even complain: do not torture yourself?
passengers on the train, I was crowded train persons; in Shenyang city, I'm just one of five million people; for all mankind, I have only one billion insignificant a grain of sand. another angle, what is not tiny it? still a thing in the solar system, the sun as big as watermelons, beans as big as the Earth after all. to the Milky Way do? there beans so big? not have become a dust of you?
transform the issue of perspective, select the active role into the life, it could be a winner.